Honestly- I've been there. Of course I felt neglected by my then husband....my self esteem was so shot, I had never been so down and depressed in my life. But I can't give blame to my bad marriage for what I did. I made a poor choice. I basically acted upon wanting what I wasn't getting in my marriage. But- it always makes it worse, not better. Not worth it. I've learned from my experience and told myself that I am better than that and promised myself I would never stoop that low again.
So the girl has a valid point, but cheating is DEFINATELY not a way to make their relationship better. She was doing it to feel better and to get his attention. But I am pretty sure nothing good has come out of that. Sucker for staying with her.
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