1-2 per week, always roughly at the same times of day, always pretty much the same positions and activities.
After a few years of going for it whenever he offered because I like sex and figured if I don't take it when I can get it I'll go without, I've grown tired of feeling like I've had to beg for it or like he's performing some sort of obligatory chore.
I initiate a lot less now, I also find that I say thanks but no thanks when he does decide to offer.I hate feeling like some sort of needy beggar. I quietly just masterbate and take care of my own needs most of the time.
I love the man,he's got a lot of good qualities but most of my sexual drive
and passion has basically been wrung out of me at this point.
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