I have managed to remain friends with two of my ex's.
I still care about them both.
However, one that I lived with for 5 years, we never speak. I sometimes wonder how she is. But I don't call. Neither does she. It was the nastiest of breakups. (She was having an affair with a flake while my mother was terminal with cancer because I wasn't taking care of her to her standards. I found out, we parted ways. Though we continued to have sex for about a year after we split under the pretense that we would remain friends- she was good in the sack and she liked having multiple partners. Then it got to be too much for her because she was getting married. Complicated? You betcha....)
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