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Some good points, and some clarification:
We did talk to each other over the 2 years regarding any issue that came up, we did IMO resolve all of those issues, however, the main problem that she has is whenever we get to a point that we're ready to proceed, another issue pops up...
What happened 2 months ago is that we resolved what I thought was the one last remaining issue... we did subsequently get into a fight, albeit a minor one, simply put, I was having a bad day, we both agreed that it was minor, however, it did impact her emotions over this whole whether to get married or not attitude... straw breaking camel's back so to speak...
The way the situation is right now, she has told me that she still has a lot of feelings and the only reason why she wants to not continue our existing relationship is the fact that she doesn't want to feel hesitant... she's actually the one that still wants to remain good friends...
I somewhat had an idea about the deadline that it was end of summer, but didn't know the exact date (she had an exact date apparently)... I wanted to keep our current relationship going, whatever that means, to see if her feelings change... but seems like she wants to go back to being friends... and I know what some of you are going to say, she's sincere about that pt, I've been always the one that told her that I don't do the friendship thing, so it's not an excuse on her part...
At this point, it sounds like just hanging around, keeping in touch with her, and doing stuff with her is the way to go... I don't want to cut off contact, in case she starts to get used to not being with me, and I don't want to put too much pressure on her either, since I'm worried that it'll only cause her to forcibly cut off whatever relationship we have...
thoughts ?
really appreciate the responses so far... all of them...
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