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Sounds like I have found an interesting book to read. I appreciate everyone openess and opinions here. Personally we are very comfortable in our relationship, and have always been open in our discussions. Tho I disagree with some of the comments made, I love hearing other peoples opinions, for it gives me insight into better improving our lives. Personally I feel that age is never much of a factor. I base this on the fact that I AM in this lifestyle, and the number of couples that I meet along the way. I have seen an average of all ages involved, with equal amouts of sucess and failure. Heck, I know of one couple back in Texas where the wife openly agreed for her husband to swing, but not her. They were VERY much in love, because I knew them personally, but she just was not mentally or physically interested in sex, and he still had a strong sex drive. They loved each other, and she said she loved him too much to ask him to not have sex at all (Personally I think that is one of the most sincerest givings of love I have ever seen). It's hard to explain in a short post all the details, but just suffice to say that I still have talked to them even after moving here, and they have been doing this for over 15 years now. So I say yippie to them!
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"It is not that I have failed, but that I have found 10,000 ways that it DOESN'T work!" --Thomas Edison
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