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Compared to some people, I'm loud... but not in a yelling sort of way, I just don't have a soft spoken voice (too many years of teaching software taught me how to project my voice... )
My former boss was a screamer and the littles things would send him over the edge and on a rampage... it took a few of his tantrums to realize they were just that.. a tantrum.. kind of like what a 2 year old throws... a 2 year old throws a tantrum because they didn't get their way not because mommy fucked up something they just didn't get their way... My boss's tantrums weren't about me at all...
Quiet talkers I think are way more annoying than loud talkers... If I have to struggle to hear someone because their head is down or they are barely speaking above a whisper... makes me insane... Some people I've seen use it as a control mechanism or an attention getting mechanism... Just serves to annoy me..
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