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Originally Posted by Lindy
Two weeks??? I think any suggestions at all would be way premature. After just two weeks I would still view any dating relationship as casual.
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Yeah, but... what if she's pretty much perfect apart from that? If those are things she's unwilling to compromise on, then he may want to move on.
For example: while it's normally not the first thing a couple thinks about, I ask a girl right away what her feelings about kids are. For the most part, I've known my girlfriends' positions on kids before I started dating them- that's how early I brought it up. Some things are kind of important, some are deal-breakers... there's no point in dragging things out and letting her develop feelings while you're hoping you'll eventually be able to get her to shave her happy trail.