how do you bring this up?
ok i've dating this great girl for about 2 weeks and it's goin great, but there are two small issues i have that i dunno how to bring up with her.
first issue: she layers on her makeup a bit thick. i mean, that sounds kinda weird, but she shines, very literally, when she puts her makeup on. she's shiney in the light i mean. i've seen her many a time without makeup on and she's a lot better looking with only a little bit of makeup, not her usual over application, which by the way is very easy to feel when making out. how do i be diplomatic about asking her to tone that down? it gets to me a little bit, but it just seems kinda blunt to be like "hey, put on less makeup."
second issue: now this one is bugging me. i have seen a lot of girls who have a "happy trail" as i've heard it called. for those who don't know what i'm talkin about, it's the sorta trail of pubic hair that leads from right above your genitals to the navel. some people i hear find it attractive. me, i definitely don't. my girl has it and i definitely wanna ask her to shave or wax it off. but this is an area i definitely don't wanna fuck up addressing....seems to me that might just offend her. a lot. i mean, i'd be kinda embarassed if she asked me to give my pubes a new do cuz she didn't like how they were. please, give me an idea how to, again, diplomatically ask her to tone that down?
these are both pretty minor things, so i don't wanna come across as shallow or vain or something. i'd just like to let her know how i feel without offending her.
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