It's easy to let your virtual self go too far without any real intentions of acting out on it. You've already gotten replies from far wiser people than me, but there's one thing that caught my eye.
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Originally Posted by Timberwolf_80
<....>Well a few weeks after moving in together I stumble upon some chats she was having with guys online during our break...even some months before our break actually. There are at least two guys that I found where she told them she loved them after a few weeks to a month and ended up sending them hardcore pics of herself and even hardcore videos and live web-cam sessions.<...> She still talks to one of them though and has never mentioned my existence to them, although she doesn't talk to him like she did before it still bothers me she talks to him like she's single.<...>
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Stumbling over chat logs can happen to everyone, but you've read them all and continues to do so behind her back. To me that's a breach of trust and an invasion of her privacy. Sounds like you both need to come clean if you want do have a good level of communication.