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Originally Posted by Deltona Couple
I can always understand the jealousy thing, not everyone can feel comfortable in this lifestyle. I hope that in your analogy of "ice and cream" is simply from YOUR viewpoint. Because I know an extremely large number of people who can enjoy "making love" to their partner, and having "sex" with someone else, without it being "nothing special and boring."
On the side note:
Just curious, if you aren't into that kind of thing, then why do you say that it is "annoying" about what it is called? Orriginally it was called "the swinging lifestyle" and was shortened many years ago to simply "The Lifestyle"
Sorry if this comes off as inflamatory, that is not my intention. It just seems that your comment is condesending on those that enjoy it.  |
Yes the Ice and Cream analogy is totally my own opinion and is only stated to illustrate
my unwillingness to separate sex from love. Nothing else (don't think I wrote anything that would imply otherwise).
Not condeceding, just that it's annoying that it's the same name. I'm into D/s myself and it could be a bit confusing that I could be taken for a BDsM'er or Swinger if I refer to myself as a Lifestyler to somone not in the circle of friends who knows what I'm into. Just a little peeve, nothing at all serious.
Another sidenote: if things I write seem inflamatory please assume good intent, I have a language barrier to break when I post in these forums.