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Originally Posted by high_jinx
there is a currency in relationships between guys and girls.
girls want attention.
guys want affection.
if you are a nice guy and giving a girl all the attention she wants, she's going to take that attention and go give her affection to a guy that she has to in order to receive attention from him, thinking she can have her cake and eat it too. and she'll be right.
if you're interested in dating a girl be careful about giving away all your attention too freely. it will get you pigeonholed into a "just-friend faster than you can say "blue balls".
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thats what i wrote in another thread and i think it applies here.
to add to that, i'd say yeah, confidence and being yourself is important. just be aware of the give and take aspect of any social relationship...
if you don't expect her to give back any affection/interest in you she won't
if you invite her to walk all over you she will