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Sounds to me like she was exploring options while you guys were on break--which is *exactly* what breaks are for! She came back to you, so you know what she wants.
You could beat yourself up over it and say,"what if she wants to return to that kind of thing later on" and agonize over it, but frankly you could also fixate on "She never did anything wild--what if she wants to later on."
Sounds to me like she needed to try other options, explore herself, and it would seem she ended up deciding that wasn't for her. How can you know what's not for you if you never try anything different?
But if you are getting married, I think it would be good to talk to her about this and get it out before hand. Just remember that you were on break, she's an individual, independant adult.
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At night, the ice weasels come." -
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