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>>>I have a friend who is guilt ridden because his girlfriend cheated on him multiple times, then convinced him it was his fault because he neglected her.>>>
Your friend is at fault 100%. When you are in a relationship and you say I love you, that means that you show it. If your friend started neglecting her, then he should have broken up with her first. Her cheating is just karma for his neglecting.
Jonathan
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And the fact that she was in a relationship and obviously didn't care for the guy means nothing? Why couldn't she have broken up with him if she was unhappy with being neglected? Which, btw, is what SHE said, possibly not what actually happened. If he did neglect her and she was put off enough to cheat then I'd assume she doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, so why couldn't she have just told the guy? I'm surprised you would put all the blame on the guy solely based on her justification for cheating.
*shrug* But I’m rather biased against cheaters.