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raeanna74 · 08-28-2006, 10:19 AM

I had trouble thinking of a title for this thread. How to describe the situation in a few words is eluding me. First my situation then my question.

A person contacted me on chat and I began talking to him. Before we'd had much of a conversation he sent me a pic of a topless woman. It was appealing. Next he sent a pic of a two women kissing but dressed. Fine, no problem. Then he sent a pic of a little girl in a bikini. The girl was probably 10 yrs old. I asked if any of these people were SO's or his own children. None were. Just pics that he'd found and liked. Fine. I didn't respond to the pic about the girl. Till he asked what I thought of her. I said that she looked cold. Finally he came back with the comment. "why are her nipples sticking out"? I thought this was odd since the girl didn't look to be more than 10 yrs old. I just said that I thought she was cold because she was hugging herself. Finally he sent several messages in a row that I didn't respond to because I wasn't sure HOW to respond. He said. "shes pretty", "she has a pretty face", and finally "she looks good in those bikini bottoms, she has nice legs".
At that point I responded that I felt the last comment was inappropriate because she was so young. He responded with "well i have seem some kids nude and found it interesting and there are certain girls that seem to be more pretty, like that one."

I just felt very uncomfortable with the way he was talking and wonder if I should report this kind of conversation. This guy doesn't know a thing about me besides what is in my profile. He was very open about his interest in someone so young and it was inappropriate. It makes me worry about what he would do if he was talking to a young girl online. How far would he take that. If he would be one of those online stalkers.

My questions are - What would you do? and Where do you report something that's questionable like this??

08-28-2006, 10:19 AM	#1 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Reporting questionable online activity (sexual) I had trouble thinking of a title for this thread. How to describe the situation in a few words is eluding me. First my situation then my question. A person contacted me on chat and I began talking to him. Before we'd had much of a conversation he sent me a pic of a topless woman. It was appealing. Next he sent a pic of a two women kissing but dressed. Fine, no problem. Then he sent a pic of a little girl in a bikini. The girl was probably 10 yrs old. I asked if any of these people were SO's or his own children. None were. Just pics that he'd found and liked. Fine. I didn't respond to the pic about the girl. Till he asked what I thought of her. I said that she looked cold. Finally he came back with the comment. "why are her nipples sticking out"? I thought this was odd since the girl didn't look to be more than 10 yrs old. I just said that I thought she was cold because she was hugging herself. Finally he sent several messages in a row that I didn't respond to because I wasn't sure HOW to respond. He said. "shes pretty", "she has a pretty face", and finally "she looks good in those bikini bottoms, she has nice legs". At that point I responded that I felt the last comment was inappropriate because she was so young. He responded with "well i have seem some kids nude and found it interesting and there are certain girls that seem to be more pretty, like that one." I just felt very uncomfortable with the way he was talking and wonder if I should report this kind of conversation. This guy doesn't know a thing about me besides what is in my profile. He was very open about his interest in someone so young and it was inappropriate. It makes me worry about what he would do if he was talking to a young girl online. How far would he take that. If he would be one of those online stalkers. My questions are - What would you do? and Where do you report something that's questionable like this?? __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.