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after reading through this thread, i agree spot on with just about everything most people have to say. i used to be the nice guy, and still am to an extent. but it is extremely difficult to change the "nice guy" mentality because for many nice guys, its the foundation of a personality. YOU are the nice guy, and that's who you've always been.
women look at self confidence more than anything. sure physical attraction is what is first noticed, but if a guy has self confidence he can usually bag some chick who is ranked higher up on the totem pole.
lastly, i started reading this thread hoping that i would find an answer to a question that relates to what's being talked about here. and that question is, how hard is it (and is it even possible) to shed the "friend/nice guy" label that some chick has tagged your forehead with?
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