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I guess I'm the only one who thinks you shouldn't move out. At the age of twenty one you've got plenty of years ahead of you where you'll be able to experience being out on your own - I can understand and respect your reasoning behind wanting to leave but I just don't think it's worth having to wonder whether or not your old man would be alright without you.
It's not your obligation to make sure his world is held together but what you have to gain from leaving doesn't seem to be worth the possiblity that something could go wrong. Your post makes it seem as if you haven't even spoken to him about moving out - your reasoning seems as if it stems from exactly what you're trying to remedy by moving out and that's a lack of experience...
I'm assuming a bit here but staying a bit longer doesn't seem that hard when you consider the 21 years he gave to you.
(and if you're going to move then be sure to move into a more stable enviornment where there is a contract and a business relationship between you and your landlords)
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