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I guess my statement was very general, and left much to interpretation. I guess it looked like I was asking for advice, but that wasn't the case. We have been in the lifestyle for most of our relationship, and I have been involved with it most of my life. I had no specific questions, I was just curious in general as far as the members of the board. Jealousy is a big factor in people choosing to engage in this, or remain in this lifestyle. Our advice that we give to anyone curious about it, is that if jealousy is a factor at all, don't even try it. You MUST be able to separate lovemaking with your spouse, and having SEX with someone else. If you can't do that, then it is a sure failure. I have seen it personally with new couples. For you, Punkmusicfan, the best advice I can give you is talk about it with your wife when you are both SOBER...lol. and see if she is still interested. If yes, them set up the ground rules first, and ALWAYS have safe sex with others....And as far as anal, best advice there? go S....L....O...W....SLOW, and use LOTS of lubrication. My wife loves anal, but we have to do things that way, otherwise it WILL hurt.
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