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Originally Posted by Doctor_Max
Well I talked to her a few moments ago and apparently she felt horrible about last night. She now tells me she wants to be with me but just wants to explore this other guy for a little bit for fun. She says shes 90% sure she wants to marry me but she doesnt want to start now. So she wants to date both of us. I'm not exactly sure how I feel about this though. I told her there'd have to be rules (limited physical action) which I feel she can follow. I told her I'd think about it but don't count on anything.
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If you're going to agree to that arrangement, don't kid yourself about following certain rules. Also, make it clear to her that you'll be looking around too. Personally, I couldn't handle a "downgrade" in the relationship. If you had started out that way fine but not after you've been committed. It sounds to me like she's just afraid to break up with you.