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Originally Posted by Bill O'Rights
"If you love something, then set it free. If it returns to you, it is yours. If it does not...it never was."
Although...I always prefered;
"If you love something, then set it free. If it returns to you, it is yours. If it does not...then hunt it down and kill it."
Ummm...just to clarify, Doctor_Max...that was not advice. OK?
That was just a parady on an old sappy hippy-dippy piece of poster philosophy. That's all.
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You know, that's funny!
But also, I think in a way I'm agreeing with JinnKai--no one is ever *yours* (and I mean *yours* in a very general sense, not pointing anyone out). Whether someone comes, stays, goes, returns...they're never *yours*. Thinking in possessive terms isn't the best way. But yeah, I understand that it's a common reference, not everyone intends a possessive connotation. As long as that's understood.
But I also think that this is very highly likely to turn out in a way that does not bode well for your future together, if you don't want to always be on pins and needles, wondering (and who does?). Couples starting out need a strong start, and this ain't it.
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I know that your heart's just been ripped from your chest and had a bite taken out of it. But...I have been there. Trust me that it will work out for the best.
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Yes it's painful. But it's not the most painful thing that can happen. Learn from this, and I give you a hug in the meantime.
*hug*