Why should you agree to be anyone's back up plan? I know you love this girl but you really are better off with someone that wants you more than anyone else, and not with someone that will settle for you if something else doesn't work out.
On the other hand, she may just be getting the whole cold feet at the thought of being married and spending all her time with one person the rest of her life. Even if that is the case, the chances of her being ready for marriage are slim.
Bad situation all around, and I really hope everything works out for you.
-tenchi
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