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Originally Posted by Socrates
Is that it...? I still don't understand the reasoning behind it. What is it that you guys see that I don't. Every mature (I don;t like to use the word old) person I talk to has nothing concrete to say except that they shouldn't be acting like that, like you guys have mentioned etc etc, but my real question is WHY are they acting like this...? Are they trying to teach me a lesson, to be strong and tough...? I know if I ask THEM this they will say its because of me and my atitude which is not the case.
Moving out isn't easy fellas, Im sure you guys know that to top it off I have a younger sibling that pretty much I HAVE to take care of no matter what because my parents don't provide any guidance whatso-ever so instead of letting her make the mistakes I have due to NO guidance Im doing everything in my power for her to have an easy life, so if I move out she will have to put up with their constant bullsh** and afcourse the negativity WILL have an effect on her. Aren't their ANY other reasonable suggestions...? Any 30+ people here that can give some insight...?
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Without knowing you or your parents no one could fathom a guess as to why they are acting the way they are.
Whether or not someone "should" be acting a certain way is fairly presumptious anyway.
Please keep in mind that no matter how old a person gets they are HUMAN and will act selfish and disrespectful at times (hell, even ALL the time in some cases). Even to their own children. Like it or not.