If it is a girl, then it sounds to me like someone who has been emotionally or sexually abused as a young girl. Now that she is older she has a distorted view of relationships and just sees the sexual side, which in reality disgusts her. She attempts to use these games of hers as a form of therapy to get back at the men who did her harm and to build her self esteem. Her justification is that these are men who are old enough to walk away; when at the time some horrible things were happening to her she didn't have any choice. Of course, I could be entirely wrong. But then again, she never did admit to her "boyfriend" knowing that she was playing games. She also never admitted to caring for him after TWO YEARS. I say "boyfriend" because that status is, at least in my definition, reserved for someone you care about. It doesn't sound like she cares about him personally other than for what he can give her. She doesn't care about his integrity, she accords him no respect and she mocks him. Perhaps he is just a nice guy, but once he figures out her game she will probably have turned him into a mysoginist. A title that she claims to loathe. If she truly cared about the state of mysoginy then she would try to combat some of the reasons men despise women. One of them being this game she is playing. Not to mention her passive agressive behavior.
Oh, and I am a real woman. While I'm not a mysoginist, I sure as hell can understand why some men despise women for the games they play.
Personally I would not play these games unless I was willing to put out. Why? Because they turn me on and I love sex. I couldn't wait a month. Even a week.
But as I said, I could be wrong and you may just be a troll with a lot of time on their hands.
Last edited by Impetuous1; 08-19-2006 at 10:19 AM..
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