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raeanna74 · 08-18-2006, 06:00 PM

You'll have to ask DEI37 if what I say is true for him. For me, the wedding itself was more for our parents than for us. We let our parents (and even my grandpa) do a lot of the more minor decisions. We picked stuff out for the basic stuff but they did the rest of the planning. His Mom was so pleased when I let her decide how to arrange the place for the reception. I must say I loved it. I was just glad it was done and looked good and was functional.

As for marriage - shoot! the reasons we GOT married were not for love. He got married for the sex, I got married to escape my parents house and it was the easiest route and for the sex. The reason we stay married IS love and trust. There are plenty of other minor reasons to get married and stay married but I'd have to boil it down to, I love being around him, knowing him, sharing his life, and I'd trust him with my life, trust him with our daughter, and trust him with my heart.

08-18-2006, 06:00 PM	#23 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	You'll have to ask DEI37 if what I say is true for him. For me, the wedding itself was more for our parents than for us. We let our parents (and even my grandpa) do a lot of the more minor decisions. We picked stuff out for the basic stuff but they did the rest of the planning. His Mom was so pleased when I let her decide how to arrange the place for the reception. I must say I loved it. I was just glad it was done and looked good and was functional. As for marriage - shoot! the reasons we GOT married were not for love. He got married for the sex, I got married to escape my parents house and it was the easiest route and for the sex. The reason we stay married IS love and trust. There are plenty of other minor reasons to get married and stay married but I'd have to boil it down to, I love being around him, knowing him, sharing his life, and I'd trust him with my life, trust him with our daughter, and trust him with my heart. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma. Last edited by raeanna74; 08-18-2006 at 06:10 PM..