Mantus

Seriously?! Learn to pay attention and you will be able to tell - with quite a bit of ease infact. The proximity signal I talked about sounds pretty vague but if you start paying attention you will see it EVERYWHERE. It's the most common one I go by besides when a girl eyefucks me. Now just because she wants you to approach doesnt mean you are IN. One can still mess up by saying something stuppid and looking like a tool.


Lets talk about a sign often missed and mistaken as a something negative. Everything is going well and then out of bloody nowhere a girl challenge you with something like...
"I bet you've say that to all the girls"
...cant you just hear the gears grinding to a halt?

This is a test guys. Women test men all the time. What you have to realize is that this is GOOD THING. A woman testing you is saying - I am attracted but I just want to make sure you are the real thing. I want to make sure you are not a little whimp who folds at the first sign of trouble.

All you have to do is pass it by not being phased by it. Like with the example above..."yah babe, and I am amazed it still works". You passed it and she now feels more comfortable with you because you are SOLID, you didn't wimp out or try to please her. Why did you pass? Well, you were confident, even cocky because you wernt affraid to agree with it and then you called her on the fact that what you said actually did make her attracted to you.

Another one is: "...I can't believe you cant cook" ...a wimp would start qualifying to her. Instead say "No way! I am looking for girl who'll cook everything for me! I am high maitenance!" You arnt phased by her challenge and you are being funny about it. Passed test.

...argh I am bored of writing about this, let me know if you guys are intrested then I might write more...it's basic flirting though...

Peace