In MY opinion it's not a case of sexuality or liberation or feminism; it's a question of civility. Saying this, I'm not a woman, but my mentality isn't to take the reigns sexually or in anything in my relationship with my "consenting" fiancee. And I don't think it is a man's devine right to do so. Nor do I think it's a case of man vs. woman.
You are manipulating him. Plain and simple. If I were doing it then it would be manipulating. It is what it is.
And I know that this has been said already but I would love to repeat it.
Consent is when both parties are completely in the know when it comes to said situation. And the fact that you leave men oblivious to it makes it a mind game.
And I say again, a little firmer,
not cool.
And just adding and stealing the direction a bit. This is the second thread i've read in two days that have rookies feverishly defending themselves, as if we are enemies, or to use a term mentioned earlier but in a different context,
preditors; waiting for you to slip so we can pounce on our rookie prey. This place,
they say, is filled with people who have their minds closed tight. I disagree. I'll apologize if I seem uninviting. But you found a place made for those who do the exact opposite (most of the time
) You stumbled upon, or searched and found, a rare place in the world; something to be cherished. You found a place that is one mouse click away where you can discuss many issues, that may or may not mean a god damn thing to you, with people from all walks of life, with all different kinds of educational backgrounds, and home lives. You are blessed.
That said, stop whining. You have your opinion and we all have ours.