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Originally Posted by Mantus
Big,
It's very cool that you found a girl you trully dig and might be ready to trully get deep with. It's a huge an mature step to take. Just a couple of questions.
1. What kind of relationship do you want? Not with her but in general. What are you ready for right now?
2. What is this next big step you are hoping to take? How do you plan to express it and what do you expect of her?
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Thanks Mantus. To answer your questions:
1. I'm at a transitional stage in my life right now. I'm still persuing my dream of playing professional baseball. I was recently released from the Houston Astros at the end of May and am still looking to sign with another team, which right now is looking quite promising. I also just graduated from college, so its time to grow up so to speak. The type of relationship I'm looking for is a serious one that could lead to marraige. I've tried the fling thing and that just doesnt work for me. I'm a relationship type of guy, so I enjoy being a relationship and spoiling the girl I'm with. I think at this point I'm ready to get serious again after having a few 3 month relationships that just didn't seem to fit what I was looking for.
2. The next big step I'm hoping to take is asking her to be my girlfriend. I don't quite know how I'm going to express it, but I'm going to make it special thats for sure. I like doing things like that and consider myself a very romantic type of guy. What do I expect of her? Well from the time we've spent together I can't help but expect her to say yes to being my girlfriend. I hung out with my best friend last night and he told me when we were all at the dodger game that she told him she enjoyed spending time with me, etc etc. So I can't help but think she has the same feelings for me as I have for her. Plus, she's at a transitional stage in her life right now where she's looking to start a career and get things going. Her party days are over and I think she might be ready to settle down.
I'll definately keep you guys posted on what happens. Hope that answers your questions Mantus.