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Guys, lets calm down. We can't change a persons mind by attacking them. She is not a troll. Foxy is new to this and hasnt seen all the problems which may come up. We are trying to give her a view of her man's perspective when indeed we know nothing about him.
If you guys feel that Foxy needs guidance then I think we should do it the correct way by allowing her to see possitive benefits of playing the relationship game in other ways.
So.....
Foxy, I think it's awsome that you have found these skills to control men. They are going to be a huge asset to you in your life. However, as you will notice soon, they won't land you quality men.
A man who stays with you out of choice rather then because he has no other options; a man who is strong enough to lead and make you feel comfortable with it; and a man who knows what he wants and takes initiative to get it. Those men are going to bypass, if not be repulsed by your screening process.
Now I am not sure if you understand or know what you want at this point in your life. Play around with your boys for now and see what happens. See what they can give you and what they can't.
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