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Originally Posted by FoxyLucy
What is a `troll´ exactly? It´s popped up too many times in this thread, now. I can assure you if you saw me you´d not think me a troll.
I thought this was a forum for the sexully liberated, where one can openly discuss sex and realtionships. All I have been met with is judgemental, sanctimonious condemnation.
Well I have had enough tonight...I´m off to finish my wine, plus I´ve forgotten what I was going to say...  |
Troll:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troll#In_Internet_Forums
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A person who enters unknown forums who bashes and insults forum members with unfounded arguments, or anyone that enters any sort of internet community for the sole purpose of harassing others is often referred to as a troll. See Internet troll.
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Or more loosely interpreted somone who intentionally posts a controversial and inflamatory subject with the sole purpose of pissing people off.
And yes this is a forum for sexually liberated discussions, liberated from inhibitions, shame, cultural norms and abuse. See, the problem with your relationship as you have thus far described it is that it falls under the abuse category. Emotional abuse to be more specific. Tossed in with a healthy dose of shameless denial.
What really makes people think you are a troll is that there is an utter lack of remorese and objectivity in your posts, not once have you shown that you actually thought of his feelings in the situation you put him in, you brush them away as unimportant. All we read is the "He's free to walk any time he wants" mantra you keep repeating. But like you said before, he has a lot invested, emotionally AND finacially. You have him "hooked". Is he really free to walk?