last post is correct... it's on its way to being consensual but until you've sat down and let him know you're doing it on purpose and using it as a tool, it takes a fork in the road and becomes MANIPULATIVE. have you been manipulated professionally or romantically? did you enjoy how you felt when it dawned on you that it was occuring? and one more question... if you are in a relationship with someone you care about, how can you do that to them and feel good about it?
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-my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.
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