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Originally Posted by Dane Bramage
I doubt your definition of consensual.
Have you had a conversation with him when he has said... it is okay to treat me in this way? If not, then it's not consensual. Mearly stating that he has the right to leave you whenever he chooses does not make it concensual. That's like saying it's okay for me to beat my wife because "she can leave whenever she wants to"... so that means she thinks it's okay.
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Thatīs a spurious argument. Why? Firstly, I donīt use intimidation to get my way. Secondly, we have no children. Thereīs no reason why he must stay - itīs often not been viable for a women to leave, due to financial constraints, fear of physical reprisals, uprooting children, the shame of seperation (admitting oneīs husband is violent and abusive), family pressure, etc. Finally, as I said, Iīm not breaking the law - yet you use a criminal activity (domestic violence) as an analogy.
Shame on you!
