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Originally Posted by Deltona Couple
I have to admit, after reading this post I HAD to register, to reply to this. I think I might stay now that I see how interesting things are in here.
As far as Foxy Lady, you say that the relationship is consenting? Then I ask this. Have you actually told HIM the things you have stated here? That you intentionally tease him and string him along for sex? Have you told him the way in which you treat him is intentional?
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First of all, welcome Deltona Couple.
To the point, this is what I think is most important, you have to
tell him this is what you're doing. You can beat him over the head with a railroad tie for all I care, as long as he consents to it. If he doesn't, it's just cruel.
And thinking that "he stays because he likes it" is faulty logic. He may like you a lot, he may even love you, but if you mistreat someone enough, they'll grow to resent you and you'll break up thinking that it's all his fault because he couldn't keep it in his pants. In reality, it's your's because you couldn't just talk to him. Honesty goes a long way in a relationship. Try it, you'd be surprised. You'll also find out immediately if he is a "jerk," as you put it, because he won't want to wait.