I have to admit, after reading this post I HAD to register, to reply to this. I think I might stay now that I see how interesting things are in here.
As far as Foxy Lady, you say that the relationship is consenting? Then I ask this. Have you actually told HIM the things you have stated here? That you intentionally tease him and string him along for sex? Have you told him the way in which you treat him is intentional?
And as far as guys wanting sex all the time, this is FAR from the truth. I have been with my wife for 9 years now, and we have a healthy sexual relationship. We arent perfect, and have our slow times and fast times, we have the times where we don't have it as often, and then other times where it is 3 or 4 times a day, or a single 4 hour marathon. We tease, we play, we do all manner of things, but after showing her this, she herself said that it seems cruel to her. Now if he seems to enjoy it, and you two are comfortable in the relationship, then more power to you both! And we hope you continue to enjoy your relationship, but from the sound of your posts, he doesn't really know that you are using this "play" to get things from him. NOBODY, man or woman should use their partner for ANY kind of gain, monetary OR emotional. It should be an even, and HEALTHY match of enjoyment and love.
OK, Now I step off my soapbox!