I doubt your definition of consensual.
Have you had a conversation with him when he has said... it is okay to treat me in this way? If not, then it's not consensual. Mearly stating that he has the right to leave you whenever he chooses does not make it concensual. That's like saying it's okay for me to beat my wife because "she can leave whenever she wants to"... so that means she thinks it's okay.
And, yes... thanks for saying that we (or maybe just me) are being a bit sanctimonious yet civil. My point is not to start a flame war, but to express my opinion of what you have posted. You can take it or leave it... but it is still my opinion and I am intitled to it. Me... for one would dump you on your ass. But that's just me
