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Originally Posted by Dane Bramage
Good point Cervantes. I'm not really hip to the D/s BDsM terminology, but that is exactly what I was getting at.
Mantus, you are completely right. I'm jumping to conclusions, and I'm being very opnionated about them. Her attitudes do get me a bit peeved. She hasn't come out and said anyting that would indicate she is a FemDom, so we can only assume...
Lucy, very early on in this post you got defensive and said that perhaps you dont' belong her because the TFP is not as morally open as it claims to be. Belive me, this place is very open minded. What people here don't like is abusive, disfunctional relationships.
Of course you are free to do whatever you want. Just don't expect people to agree or support you in it.
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Not for me?! Collectively, you are sanctimony incarnated! To be honest, I´m not sure why I´m even
bothering trying to justify myself to you.
I´m partaking in a consensual relationship with an adult, university educated man. What I´m doing is not illegal, and he can walk away any time he likes - hence,
consensual. Women have for centuries been lackeys to men. Quiet, subserviant creatures, who wash and clean and bring up the kids, often in physically abusive relationships from which they had no escape.
Now, the boot´s on the other foot. I´m a 21st century girl. A professional (don´t start with the ´pro´ jibes - though to be fait you´re pretty civil in your criticism), an independent woman. If I use sex as leverage to get what I want and my guy doesn´t have a problem with that...why should you?