rmarshall

I'm 50 and my sweetie is 48. I'm so done with playing games.
The fatigue thing happens with younger women because of longer work hours or children, etc. Older women have less child rearing to do and probably work fewer hours at more money per hour. Saving energy for sex is sort of like having dinner and saving room for dessert. Something you learn.
I work in Toronto monday to thursday so am away 3 nights per week. My sweetie loves sex as much as I and may even tell me when she couldn't wait and had to play with herself. Or maybe she'll just leave the toys for me to wash when I get home.
Withholding sex for power reasons seems to me to be a sign of unsatisfactory sex. If it was really good, there would be two in the couple doing "pretty much anything for sex".
My two cents.

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