If i was making out with some chick and she got up in the middle of it to "make an important phone call" that she had "forgotten" about, I would probably walk right there. Not because I date only for sex, but because I would see her for the bullshit games she was playing.
The thing is, I'm not gonna judge anyone for the sexual games / fetish they might have, but I don't really get that feeling from you. From what you have posted, it sounds more like you are into it for the manipulation / power trip and I just don't see how that can be healthy.
You have said in your posts that he's into it for a lot of money because "you have expensive tastes", and that you keep him on a string because he thinks that "sex is right around the corner". So, in other words, you are using the false promise of sex to get you a sugar daddy that takes you nice places and buys you expensive things. And finally, to add insult to injury, you are proud of all this. Proud that you have managed to fool this guy into thinking you really care about him. You have not once in this thread said that you love him... all you care about is that you get "a guy that worships the ground you walk on" and that he "treat you like a princess".
You may be Alpha, but I don't think you are dominate. I think you are an 18 year old chick with a smoking hot body that enjoys using it to control men. You say that all men are interested in is sex... well guess what honey... I'm a man, and that ain't true at all. Some of us are actually interest in intimacy. You should try to find one that is.
If and it's a big if, your mind games are consentual, then have at it. Get a strap on and go to town. It's quite fun