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Originally Posted by streak_56
wow... this whole discussion has made me realize how f**ked I must be if I like being teased. Personally... I can see FoxyLadys side of the arguement. I think he's playing more of a part in this than initially indicated because obviously he's doing something that is reciprocating this.
But I would agree that this is more about power than anything.
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It´s a simple rule, the more you tease a guy, the more desperate he becomes - sounds obvious, but you´re thinking about a
single encounter. The thing I´ve found is patient guys will last a month, believing I´m going to drop my panties...one month becomes two...two becomes three, and then he´s hooked.
At each stage in between he
could end it, but he doesn´t because (i) he thinks sex is just around the corner and (ii) he´s invested so much time, effort and money - I have expensive tastes! lol
I suppose any guy who didn´t have submissive tendencies would end it before it´s a relationship, and a
few have. But they´re not the sort of guys I want, anyway. It´s kind of like a screening process.
I look at it like, this. If he´s just going out with me for sex, he´s a bastard. If he´s not, then he obviously sees something in me worth staying for. It is partly a power thing, guys will do pretty much
anything for sex, so if I keep him aroused and frustrated he´s putty in my hands. I get a guy who´ll worship the ground I work on, treat me like a princess and have the most passionate sex of any of my friends - though he has to wear
delay cream!
