raeanna74

Is sex itself rational?

I am quite comfortable talking about sex in an 'educational' tone, or about sex in a casual way.

My mother AND grandmother (which is unusual for her age) were both comfortable talking about sex in an educational tone. They both were willing to impart things they had learned. My mother in fact gave me tips on how to jerk off my husband (though she didn't use those terms - she used more technical ones) and how to masterbate myself. My grandmother told me that I should save one stained towel to put on the bed when I was menstrating but wanted sex... I learned a lot from the women in my family. My mom gave my brother much the same talk as well. Their knowledge was gleaned from the experiences they had with one man their whole life. I'm not sure what made them comfortable with it but it sure helped me feel comfortable talking about it.
I even recall teasing insinuations being made by mom at the table that made my DAD blush.

Take that one step further with me. I am comfortable having sex in public with many people watching. I am comfortable having sex with near strangers. So ask me about sex in a rational tone and I can talk rationally. I even 'instructed' a male friend (non-swinger) recently on how to get his wife off by fingering her. I don't know if it helped but it was all explained in a matter of fact tone. During swinger parties it's not uncommon for the women or men even to join in a conversation about escapades, technique, or tips in a very matter of fact tone. Granted conversations about sex are prone to jokes and teasing but I think it's because sex IS fun and primal.

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