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Originally Posted by abaya
As a corollary, I'd like to encourage people to not just respond to the poll, but also to post here and state whether their current ratio of orgasms is satisfying to them.
So, in addition to the poll:
* How important are orgasms to your satisfaction with sex?
* Are you happy with the percentage of orgasms going on in your relationship?
* If not, what have you done/are you doing to remedy that problem?
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Well, plenty of people responding to the poll so far, but not many posters. I just realized that I haven't answered my own questions, which is not cool. So here goes:
Orgasms are not THE most important thing for my satisfaction with sex, but they are still quite important. I cum less than half of the time that I have sex, mostly because it takes so long to cum from oral (and I am not very good at cumming from vaginal/anal alone). I love cumming, but I resent the fact that it takes so long for me to get there. It's hard for me to even get wet most of the time, so getting to the point of orgasm just takes too much time, I guess.
I am most satisfied when I feel I have been made love to, though I relish the occasional quickie fuck, too.
I love seeing my partner satisfied, though if he doesn't cum at the end, it's not a big deal either. Lately, though, I've felt more and more horny even after having sex, and I want to have an orgasm, too... so I reach for the vibe. I just wish my body could pop one off within minutes... but it seems unable to do so, and I don't know how to change that.