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Originally Posted by FoxyLucy
Well you´re probably right when you say this isn´t the place for me. I do feel a little defensive, I believe it adds spice to a relationship and well if you´ve got it flaunt it! I appreciate that you´ve all kept your criticism civil.
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Well, don't go running off just yet... as I said, we don't want to push you away. But what I was trying to explain is the reasoning behind all the criticism... the TFP loves to talk about sex (or at least, we used to
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However, when it appears that the "spice" might be bringing harm to a relationship, or is harmful to the person posting (we've seen some doozies)... people aren't going to mince words around here. We really just care that things are going okay for both you AND your partner. And without his input, all we can say is what we think about your side.
How about you ask your man how he feels about your teasing, and let us know what he says? At least then we'll sorta have some insight into his side.
