my best advice for you in this is something you probably won't be able to do:
don't think about it. if you let yourself dwell on it, you're going to worry about it, and if you worry about it then it will cause problems in the relationship you are currently in.
why did he fuck those other girls? who knows...there are a ton of reason why people get b i z z y...ranging from just because they are alive and want the experience to having fun to being lonely to being bored to having the opportunity and naked filas are hard to turn away.
at some point you're going to have to decide whether or not its a deal breaker. if it is, get out and find someone with a similar background to yours. if its not a dealbreaker, you're going to have to let it go.
ps. when he says "it didn't mean anything" and "because he could." means it doesn't mean anything now that he's with you, and that he did it because in that time and place, it was better than the alternative of doing nothing, or cleaning the house, or watching "naturescene" on public tv or whatnot.
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