I can only think of one scenario where this might be a healthy thing ... that's if the guy consciously and explicitly likes to be treated this way in a fetishistic sort of fashion. But that's not the vibe I'm getting here.
I honestly feel sorry for you. Women who need to have emotional leverage over a man only show how insecure they are with being themselves. I hope you realize that all the flowers and drawn baths done to "earn your favor" amount to only a substitute for true intimacy. So either you don't believe in the "real thing," or you're too young/naive to know the difference or you're just so jaded you've given up hope of having a trusting relationship.
Keep this up and you'll end up alone and/or physically/emotionally abused yourself. Just be careful.
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Originally Posted by Psycho Dad
Too bad we can't hear his side of this story.
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Yeah. Too bad this man can't be heard ...
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Originally Posted by FoxyLucy
We´ve been together two-and-a-half years, so I guess he likes it as well.
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So you've known this guy for two-and-a-half years and you have no idea what makes him happy?
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Originally Posted by FoxyLucy
All I hear is of them farting in bed....
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Small digression here ... in one relationship I had we eventually became comfortable enough to fart around each other and laugh ourselves to tears over it ... So don't knock farting. (not on a first date, of course)