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I'm all for teasing... that actually leads up to the event within the next 24 hours or so. But using sex to get more attention or something else that you want really doesn't sit well with me. It makes me feel less, knowing that I'd have to use my body to manipulate someone into the end result of my choosing.
Treating someone "mean" to keep them "keen" is one of the most immature thought processes that I've attempted to understand in quite awhile. True and lasting relationships of any kind are founded on respect, trust, and support. If you have to manipulate someone, it's you that loses. They're not giving you what you want because they want to but because they don't want the alternative. That lessens everything for me.
Plus, the concept of "blue balls" really does cause physical pain. I read up on it and I will never purposely arouse a man with the intent of not creating or allowing an avenue for release. That's horrible. In my opinion.
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The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand
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