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Congradulations... you're deliberately making a good relationship a bad one in my opinion.
While it may work right now for you, in my opinion in any (really) longterm relationship he's going to get sick of trying. So dont be all too surprised if finds a girl who doesn't act like she doesn't like sex.
I've never cheated before, but I had a girlfriend who was like this. I can tell you that her acting like this is what broke us up. She bragged to her friend, who told my friend (and then me)... I was so furious I left her that day.
Instead of being stingy with him, try doing things for him to make you appreciate you. Cook him dinner every once in a while (women never seem to understand how sexy that is). Try not to tell us every miniscule thing that happened to you that day, and enjoy a bit of silence (or listen when we do talk, instead of waiting for your turn). Initiate sex by waking him up in the morning with a BJ, you wont believe how sexy that is. Do things for him to make him appreciate you... dont hold out.
Imagine if you found out your BF purposely did that to you, and think of how he could convince you that it's for his own good. He couldn't, and you can't. Relationships are about your partner, not you.
Eventually he'll just stop trying with you. You'll get very upset because you will no longer feel appreciated (because you don't appreciate him). And the relationship will end.
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