If your man is willing to be teased and made to wait and so forth, why not? I say more power to ya.
Personally, I'm not a fan of being teased. I'll implement some teasing of my own from time to time, but nothing to the lengths of which you've mentioned. I'm more traditional in that while there may be some teasing from either party, I'd never get her hot and then go to sleep. Hopefully, she shares my sentiment.