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hmmm... I would find myself coming accross this quite interesting.
I suppose you could ask what is neglectful. Such as ignoring her/not doing anything with her. Or is it more of an excuse to cheat? That she finds certain situations that could be used in her arguement and takes it to the extreme? And I also think your buddy might be blaming the wrong person. Shes just trying to make herself feel better because she feels guilty about what she did and blames him. People get blamed because it's hard for someone to take responsibility for their actions so its easier to blame.
Personally, I don't think anyone could be conciously driven to cheat. I think its more of a last ditch effort to change something or it could be to gain the attention of someone else. More of the last reason than anything IMO.
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