First of all, your opinions on social and political matters isn't what you're all about (at least I hope not). You don't have to have everything in common with someone else in order to be friends. In fact, I have serious political differences with folks whom I consider friends. We debate them openly without losing our friendship.
Political debate alone is the exchange of ideas and facts. Don't be afraid to discuss them. Often you'll find that everybody has different experiences, views, reasons and facts to bring to the table. Maybe someone might even change your mind about an issue or two. I found that many friends of mine who considered themselves "liberal" , paradoxically, could often be quite closed-minded to rational discussion. (BTW I consider myself neither conservative nor liberal ... I let positions stand or fall on their individual merit)
Why do we like our friends? We like them because they're funny, intelligent or just plain interesting. If you believe that you have to share political views with folks in order to be friends ... then (I hate to say it) you might be the one who is "cliquish."
Be proud of your politics and just make friends. It's always tough at the start but don't isolate yourself.
Last edited by longbough; 08-13-2006 at 12:40 PM..
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