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Lindalove you need to do everything you can to start making some new friends. The payoff will take a while as you get to know them on a deeper level, which is what you'll need for your soul to stay afloat in this lonely time. I've been through a similar ordeal before and by the time I stopped lamenting over lack of friends and actually made an effort to make some new ones, it was too late. I was depresssed.
Use all the tools at your disposal. Are there any group activities you can get involved in? Gaming groups? Fitness? The internet is your friend here as well. Many cities have forums where young people can organize meetings...use them.
I refuse to believe that all the people in your new town will find you too liberal. A healthy optimism in this department would serve you well.
Oh and don't forget the TFP. It was only a quasi-substitute for real human contact during my tough time, but it really did help me get through it. Just be glad that the people around you speak English!
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