I love sex... I have no problem discussing the mechanics of sex or answering general questions regarding sex... but talking about my sex life with anyone other than the person i am currently having sex with I would never do... I don't kiss and tell, it's disrespectful to both me and to the person I am having sex with...
Personal details stay with the people involved...
I've never really had girlfriends-- but I seriously don't want to know what other women are or are not doing-- it woudl either make me feel like a slut or inadequate...
I remember a few years back, something happened with the guy I was dating, I honestly don't recall what, and this was before the days where everything you ever wanted to know was available on a google search.. He seriously said to me - why don't you ask your sister... Umm dude - i wouldn't ask my sister for directions to the mall - why would I ask her for something that intimate.. It's just strange to me that people would discuss that with a sibling... one more mystery of the universe that I will never understand.
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