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Originally posted by Dreamer@Bug
I get so jaded to think that my bf not only had a couple of flings but that they were extremely different looking than me (not to mention unfortunate looking as well). And i just don't get it... why sleep with them if you're not attracted to them or their personality???
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Maybe his idea of an attractive personality is different from your's
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Originally posted by Dreamer@Bug
The act of sex to me is not sacred but you're really taking a risk (i.e, STDs, pregnancy)--- so why risk it for someone that's meaningless. Although i realize barriers exist-- nothing is 100% so why do it???
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Some guys just want sex for the sake of having sex, and with that mentality normally comes a lack of care, or thought, about the consequences of their action.
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Originally posted by Seaver
And he didn't have sex to someone he wasn't attracted to. He was, at minimum, very emotionally attracted (or very drunk). He's saying that so you don't freak out in jealousy.
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Couldn't agree more.